Two weeks after Imran Khan’s second marriage ended in a divorce in just 10 months, Reham has spoken out, claiming that she was told that she should be making chapatis in the kitchen and not to be seen outside.
The Pakistani cricket legend-turned-politician and the 42-year-old TV journalist announced their decision to split on October 30 amid reports that Imran objected to her meddling in politics.
62-year-old Imran’s marriage to Reham was his second after his first marriage with English heiress Jemima Goldsmith for nine years ended in divorce in June, 2004.
Reham Khan, a divorced mother of three, left a job on regional BBC news and moved back to Pakistan in 2013.
“I was told specifically by a senior adviser: they basically wanted me to be in the kitchen, to be cooking chapatis and not to be seen ever again,” Reham told Sunday Times.
Reham said as soon as she and her youngest daughter moved into Imran’s mansion in Bani Gala, on a hilltop overlooking Islamabad, she felt stifled.
Her career was a constant problem, particularly when she became an “ambassador for street children” in Peshawar.
“There wasn’t any involvement, I never attended meetings or anything of the sort, but obviously there was insecurity,” Reham said.
Reham said she gave up her television show to avoid a conflict of interest and did not work for several months.
But she still upset Imran Khan’s Pakistan Tehreek-i-Insaf (PTI) early on when a journalist questioned her about problems in her first marriage. Asked in an interview if she had been the victim of domestic abuse, she “didn’t want to lie” and said yes.
“I answered as diplomatically as I could, being a politician’s wife,” she told the paper.
But the media storm that followed upset Imran’s party.
Imran’s response was silence, she said.
“I was told not to defend myself, to let it die down, she said. But the “attacks escalated”. Although Imran knew about her past, she thinks it took its toll on him: “I don’t know if he was surprised by it, but he was affected by it.”
She said guests to Imran’s home were never fed and Imran was surviving on “one chapati a day”.
Imran was not, she thinks, quite prepared for married bliss.
“I tried to talk to him. I’m very talkative and I’m very chatty but, you know, you can’t exactly with Imran Khan. You can’t discuss the colour of the curtains; you can only talk politics. You cannot exactly discuss Bollywood films with him. God knows I tried,” she said.
Reham said she plans to continue her work with street children in Pakistan, is producing two films.
“I have to make up for loss of income. I married a man who convinced me that he loved me, who looked lonely and who I thought had the same ideas about life and the same goals, but we were just too different,” she said.