Love and passion plays a vital role in married life. I would like to point out that staying married cannot be boring exercise unless the partners make sacrifices for each other so as to enjoy the fruits of marital enjoyment. One would find that in our Indian society, a woman plays a key role in making adjustments and stabilizing the relationship. Every marriage has its inconveniences, minor rows and major spats. As the mind is the biggest sex organ, the couple should understand the importance of mind in the art of lovemaking. Lovemaking is a tonic to a happy marital life. It is rightly said, “Blessed are they who are loved”, but twice blessed are they who have the ability to love and give.”
No doubt, the first year of marriage is supposed to be the boredom one as each partner has to adjust to the other’s tastes and temper, ideals and interests. It is found that jealousy is also another emotion, which kills the marital life. Each partner should think in terms of “We” and not “I”. Minor issues must not be given importance. Lastly I would like to point out that the relationships acquired by marriage are equally important, if not more, and hence have to be carefully cultivated. Marriage is one such contract with its own key to success. Both mates can begin to make little adjustments, little allowances and compromises to make life more easy.
(The views expressed by the author in the article are his/her own.)
